oh my god yes we must have because he legitimately can't let this shit go but he won't directly talk to me at all. he texted me one time after he "broke up" with me and i was dry as shit and eventually stopped responding. but mte anon ugh i hope we find good men soon i don't care what color he is tbh in my adult years i've found myself becoming attracted to men of all races i just want him to be a good guy who isn't going to fuck me over